Elle M NOPe

Occasionally when my partner and I lived far away from each other, and we would talk late at night, we would set an intention to share dreams. As in dream the same dream. We would talk about what we would like to dream about and where we would go – and then share that space. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn’t. And often one or both of us wouldn’t even remember. But it was a fun experiment.

Cut to today, we have now been in separation for 8 months (today is the anniversary of that separation), and I have started to dream his dreams. It’s been a bit confusing, since this dream is a bit on the whimsical side, and my dreams are quite vivid and unusual. But its become quite clear that this dream belongs to him and not me.

The dream that occurred a few nights ago, is that I inherited a hockey team called The Blueberries. Now, I don’t really have a huge interest in hockey. I enjoy watching the game. And my grandfather coached junior hockey for quite a few years. But I have never played the game. And I am not really a die-hard fan of the sport. I do get caught up in playoff season, and world tournaments. But I’m fairly sure every Canadian does the same thing. Its part of the rules of living in this country.

My partner however, is a huge fan of the sport, and before Covid ended all recreation sports, played in a weekly league game.

What makes me feel like this dream is his, is that I felt his passion for the sport, and his desire to keep playing. I got involved in all the statistics and technical stuff behind the scenes. And that is definitely not me. I don’t understand statistics of sports. But in the dream, I was able to understand it all. To be able to negotiate and run an organization like that, is just not part of my skillset. But it is apart of his.

The only real contribution to the dream was that was mine – was the tag line – Like antioxidants, we are powerful. And a redesign of the locker room with touches of azure.

I don’t know what it means that dream my twin flame’s dream during the separation phase. But it has made me feel a little bit closer to him. And for that I am grateful.

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